The Vault with Sonja Martinovic

The Four Pillars of Leadership: Self-Leadership and Emotional Intelligence with Valarie Sandjivy

Episode Summary

Valarie Sandjivy is an adaptive leadership mentor and business coach with over 20 years of experience. As the founder of Ellipus, she helps executives, C-suite leaders, and entrepreneurs to lead with emotional intelligence, adaptability, and innovation. Valarie’s unique method combines self-leadership, emotional mastery, and soul care to break through limitations and drive sustainable growth. She combines her corporate expertise with a creative, intuitive approach to leadership, helping clients build scalable systems while fostering personal and professional transformation. With a deep commitment to evolving leadership and empowering others, Valarie inspires lasting and meaningful change in both business and life. Valerie emphasizes the importance of letting go of the limiting belief that something is inherently wrong and needs fixing, instead focusing on creation and depth in leadership and business. She discusses the need for adaptable, expandable structures that hold energy without becoming rigid, drawing from her experience transitioning from large corporate environments to entrepreneurship. Valerie also outlines four foundational pillars of leadership, starting with leading oneself before leading others, underscoring the necessity of personal growth and emotional intelligence.

Episode Notes

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👉Valarie Sandjivy is an adaptive leadership mentor and business coach with over 20 years of experience. As the founder of Ellipus, she helps executives, C-suite leaders, and entrepreneurs to lead with emotional intelligence, adaptability, and innovation. Valarie’s unique method combines self-leadership, emotional mastery, and soul care to break through limitations and drive sustainable growth. She combines her corporate expertise with a creative, intuitive approach to leadership, helping clients build scalable systems while fostering personal and professional transformation. With a deep commitment to evolving leadership and empowering others, Valarie inspires lasting and meaningful change in both business and life.

Valarie emphasizes the importance of letting go of the limiting belief that something is inherently wrong and needs fixing, instead focusing on creation and depth in leadership and business. She discusses the need for adaptable, expandable structures that hold energy without becoming rigid, drawing from her experience transitioning from large corporate environments to entrepreneurship. Valarie also outlines four foundational pillars of leadership, starting with leading oneself before leading others, underscoring the necessity of personal growth and emotional intelligence.

Some key takeaways:

Leadership begins with self-leadership; you must lead yourself before effectively leading others.

Embrace iterations as growth opportunities rather than failures, using each to build new skills and insights.

Build adaptable and expandable structures in business that support energy and innovation rather than rigid frameworks that hinder growth.

Let go of the belief that something within you needs fixing; focus instead on what you can create and deepen.

Successful leadership and business growth require continuous pivoting, refinement, and the courage to start over when necessary.




🌎 Connect with Valarie Sandjivy
https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriesandjivy/
http://www.ellips.US.com

https://www.facebook.com/valarie.sandjivy

https://www.instagram.com/valarie_sandjivy/

👉 In this episode

 

(00:00) Introduction to The Vault

(01:14) Guest Introduction: Valarie

(02:29) Valarie's Journey and Career Insights

(04:49) Challenges and Iterations in Business

(08:31) Leadership and Emotional Mastery

(14:09) The Four Pillars of Leadership

(19:26) Emotional Intelligence in Leadership

(24:53) Understanding Clarity in Leadership

(25:51) Building a Strong Foundation

(28:03) The Role of Intuition in Decision Making

(30:50) The Creation Game vs. The Destruction Game

(32:57) Balancing Structure and Flexibility

(35:36) Leadership and Team Dynamics

(38:51) The Importance of Safety in Leadership

(44:31) Final Thoughts on Leadership

🌎 Connect with Sonja

Facebook: www.facebook.com/sonja.martinovic.1111 

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/sonjamartinovic

Website: www.sonjamartinovic.com

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